Sometimes it’s hard to let go of things we hold close. Life is always changing and we can’t hold onto everything forever. From family, friends, jobs, material possession, youth, and every other thing in our life we have to part with it at some time or another. Every moment of our lives is lost with the next. We have to learn to accept this fact and live more in the now to really get fulfillment in our lives.
In order for you to understand the concept of letting go your going to have to open you mind a little. The thought of things like the past not existing might not be well received by some, but it is the only way to process this information and move on.
There is no moment in existence except for the now. The past is gone and the future will never happen. The only thing that is will happen is the change in the moment we call now to the new moment we call the future. Every second becomes the new now and you can change anything you want. You can make tomorrow a brand new beginning for your life and turn your life into exactly what you wants
Don’t worry and stress about things that have happened to you in the past. The past does not define who you are. The only thing that defines who you are is you and the way you perceive yourself. Once understood you realize that the only way you can live is to be more fluid and go with the flow.
Things that you have now won’t be forever. Nobody can have something forever. Things will change at some point. The best way to handle this is to simply accept it. Accept the fact that things are always changing. You have no control of it and there is no other way to move forward.
If you enjoy a relationship with someone now realize that it could end any day. Spend as much time as you can and enjoy it to the fullest. You don’t want to spend all of your time worrying about losing someone. If you do you will never enjoy their company. Friends change, people change, families change, life changes, learn to accept it for exactly what it is.
Try hard to make it where you don’t hold on as much. If you already have strong attachments then try your best to lessen them up. They will only come back and hurt you later. You need some attachments just make sure they are within the healthy range.
Love is the key here. Learn to love everything around you and live in the moment. Once you get this mastered you won’t have any problem letting go of anything. Good Luck!